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Meeting the First Time

Posted: admin on Jul 15 | Russia, Russian Dating

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These days, when the arrangements for Russian women tours of men to Ukraine are taking place, we receive many questions from web-site visitors, asking to advise what can be done to avoid shyness and misunderstanding when Russian women and men from different cultures meet for the first time.

We are happy to try and suggest you find ways to over some these difficulties. Though individual decisions are always unique, we can offer some common tips which might help.

Meeting a new person is always a challenge - whether you are meeting your potential boss, or negotiating the price of a house, or choosing your future husband or wife. The first thing that breaks your concentration and hampers decision-making is the feeling of responsibility. You are afraid of taking new obligations, especially when you feel it may cause irreversible changes in your life.

Suggestions for meeting Russian women:

1. Try to relax - this is only the first meeting, nobody will force you take “fatal” decisions.

2. Take an objective look at the person you are facing. Look at him/her the way you watch actors in movies - impersonally. Make up memory notes about what you definitely like (and dislike) about the person.

3. Be yourself - don’t try to look better or worse than you are - this may cause in objective opinion about you.

4. Do not suppress your personal (national, cultural) manners or habits. You’d better let the other person know about them in the very beginning of relationship. At the same time - try to notice and analyze the manners and behavior of the person.

5. Try not to make any definite opinions at the first meeting - leave yourself some space to step back - your first impression may be wrong.

6. Definitely - do not trust about the person upon his/her appearance - cultural differences in wearing things, styles and fashions are very different!

7. Make up your first notes about the person’s character. Use simple scale:

kind - aggressive;

emotional - reserved;

open - buttoned up;

generous - economical;

energetic - slow;

impulsive - pedantic;

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Again do not make any permanent opinions. Later in the evening, at home, you will recollect all these first-time notes, and compare them to your own character.

8. Do not provoke the person you are facing for the first time in your life with open questions, like “How much do you earn?” or “How many boyfriends/girlfriends have you had?”

9. If you notice something unexpected, unusual, untraditional or simply - different from your vision of it - do not hurry to evaluate the person as impolite, impudent, ill-mannered or ignorant - remember, you represent different cultures! Simply calm down, and try to analyze this little episode later, without emotions.

10. Do not forget the rule that you will always have to follow in the future - there is no happy family life without concessions made by both sides on their way to advance each other.

We might continue this list, but “too much psychology can cause pathology.” Let us look at popular “first-time-meeting tips” people invent to understand each other in everyday life.

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